FAQ: Online Dating Frequently Asked Questions

If you're looking for answers to some of the commonest questions about online dating sites, this compilation should help.

Do I need to be a certain age to register with an online dating site?
Yes, In Australia it is usually over 18. In other countries like the US, you need to be 21 year old to register. Some sites for certain age groups will only accept over 30's or over 40's.

What is important to know when creating my profile?
Most online dating sites will ask for basic details like hair and eye color, height and weight, profession, sexual preferences and hobbies. Some sites will ask for much more information, and may give you quite a lot of space to write about your likes and dislikes, what you are looking for in a partner and even how serious you want to get. The best advice here is- be honest, try to be as concise as possible and don't be too judgemental. After all, you want people to enjoy reading about you and to get the right impression. If there is something which really turns you off in a potential partner, like smoking or drinking alcohol, say so in your profile- it will save you a lot of time and energy screening candidates!

Can I submit photos?
Yes, almost all online dating sites encourage you to upload at least one photo, and some allow 3 or 4. Generally its a good idea to include a full length photo and a facial close up. Make sure your photos are up to date and good likenesses, and pay attention to esthetics- photographs are often the deciding factor in whether you get a date or not. Profiles with photos are approxiametly 5 times more likley to be contacted than one without.

If I change my mind, can I delete my profile?
This is an important thing to check before you register with any online dating site. The majority will allow you to delete your profile if you really don't want to continue, but some unscrupulous sites include a minimum time clause in the terms of contract. This can be very annoying, so read the small print.

Is the online dating site responsible for the content of profiles?
No, the site isn't responsible for the content of profiles, because people can send false pictures and lie about personal information. However, if you find that someone you have met on an online dating site has falsified information, reporting this to the site will usually result in either correction or cancellation of the members subscription.

Is there a limit on how many profiles I can contact?
No, you can usually use online dating sites as many times as you want, and at any time of the day or night, as long as you keep your subscription current, although responses will naturally depend on whether anyone is home and awake. Actually its a good idea to contact as many potential partners as possible, so that you have the luxury of winnowing out the best matches.